Does prayer offend you?


Does prayer offend you?

This was the question I posed to a group of ladies after witnessing a few become annoyed by a prayer. Let me start from the beginning…

I often pray with and get encouragement from a fellow coworker. She doesn’t work in my department, but her job puts her in close proximity to mines. It’s amazing how certain individuals are drawn together. This powerful woman of God, whom for the sake of this story I’ll call “Deborah” (later I will explain why I call her that). “Deborah” is highly spiritual and without a doubt carrying an awesome anointing. There were three older ladies in the waiting area. Think of these women as the “church mothers”, “the big Mamma’s”, the Sister Sarah’s and nem. All of a sudden, I heard them speaking with “Deborah”. Within seconds, I felt a huge surge. A force so very strong that I had no choice but to go and see what was beckoning me. Those church mothers and “Deborah” were holding hands with bowed heads. Clearly, prayer and reverence was taking place. They were barely speaking above a whisper, but I still managed to hear and recognize a holy language being spoken between them. I walked into the hallway, and was nearly knocked off my feet. Behold the surge. So strong and so high. Lord almighty!!!! I felt it through every bone in my body. I walked around that circle of women and I had no idea what they were praying about, I just made a quick
decision to touch them all, and I said out loud that I was touching and agreeing on whatever it was they were praying about.
That power, the surge, the Holy Spirit that flowed through that hallway couldn’t be denied. Again, I stress that their voices were barely above a whisper. Also, no other “customers” were there. Then, it happened. Four other coworkers walked into the hallway and began to project a look and a feeling of pure disdain. They began to shuffle around and whisper. They rolled their eyes, they shook their heads, and they scurried about some more. The seemed to become unhinged.
But why?
As a believer, I couldn’t wrap my mind around exactly what part of this minimal demonstration, lasting 2-3 mins, tops, offended them!
Was it prayer in and of itself?
Was it the coming together of individuals in mind, soul, and body that they saw?
Was it the holy language that they heard?
Was it because it was happening in the workplace?
Are they non-believers?
I mean what?
A myriad of questions invaded my thoughts. All of a sudden now, I was offended. Offended from their immediate display of disdain. Offended because they were talking about it negatively. Offended because they spoke about my friend. My sister in Christ. Perhaps talking about getting “Deborah” banned from our floor. Hold up…
Say what now..
Ok, that’s it, I’m fading to black.

I went around asking, does prayer offend you? I couldn’t get one person to tell me yes. Not one person. But they continued to hush and scurry amongst each other for the rest of the day. One person told Deborah, I wasn’t offended, but others were. Humph! She was too. Just unable to admit it when confronted. We don’t all have to agree, and people are free to believe whatever they choose. Free will, we have that choice. If you don’t agree with prayer, don’t participate. But to go that far, when this is what the church mothers were about, it was what they wanted, I mean you could see that. You would think that it was praise dancing, tambourine banging, hooping and hollering going on. Their voices were barely above a whisper. I was just, blown. I’m trying to write this with an open mind, to be objective in my approach and all that, and I guess I have failed miserably with this post. I am totally subjective and I have to admit, the way they behaved, it bothered me. It awakened in me a deep hostility. It reminded me of racism, sexism, and all the other isms I can’t find right now in my mind, but please say you get my drift. It just took me to a weird place. Am I overreacting? Is this my stuff? Naw, it can’t just be me. Now, could “Deborah” had moved along elsewhere and not felt the disapproval of the others.
Although they weren’t loud, could she had been more discreet?
But, she told me, “The Lord told me to pray, right then, right there so, I couldn’t disobey. I will not cower and hide. I will not deny my God”. Hallelujah!!!
She moves about doing her job and while doing that, she is witnessing, she is giving a kind word, a warm smile, a positive way of thinking. She is speaking into your life, and you are just drawn to her spirit. If you know the biblical story of Deborah which can be found in the book of judges, you’ll understand why I call her this.
In the bible, Deborah was such a strong woman, a Prophetess and the only female judge mentioned. Deborah helped bring a great victory for God’s people. I’m saying all this to say that sometimes everything that has the ability to shake will be shook. I get that. We all have our assignments, and others have theirs. To me, it was an appointed time. The “church mothers” were like a breath of fresh air. Like angels on assignment. “Deborah” was in the right place at the right time. I found the whole experience beautiful and humbling. It still saddens and frustrates me, that people are often too quick to judge that in which they don’t understand.

Oh well, at this point I’m probably about to start rambling, so I guess I should close out this post. I just really needed to get this off my chest.
I honestly want to know, does prayer offend you? Is there a right or wrong time and or place for this? Please share your thoughts and thanks for reading.

Peace and Blessings,

  1. said:

    Hi Dee …. it was just beautiful to read … I too do God’s work and sometimes things happen that shouldn’t …. where a prayer is being said … God is present to listen … and the whole experience is sanctified and you will forever be protected through your power to go into prayer … anywhere and everywhere … after all the only authority we need ever fear is God … and where there is prayer … there is God … the others had better beware.

  2. Julia Williams said:

    Prayer is ALWAYS in ORDER, no matter when,where or why. I constantly pray. Without it, I’m lost. I have no other defense against the devil. When we realize without it, we can’t make it. We are just existing in this world. We think we are better off without it, not so. The word of God says,”We should always pray and not faint”. BEAUTIFUL!!!!

  3. Maddin A. said:

    This is a testament. I am a believer and prayer doesn’t bother me in the least. To be exact I cant do without it. I love the woman Deborah in your story and the church mother. The way you tell the story it makes me feel as if I was right there like I know them myself. Tell your sister in Christ to keep doing what she is doing. She gave of her time just the way we should do for others. What a beautiful woman. What a beautiful story. And you are a beautiful writer.


  4. Mary Conyers said:

    Oh Dee that is so beautiful. I’m so proud of you for writing this. This let you know how satan can use people working all around you. They can be so sweet and nice, but yet all the same time satan got a hold on them. Let someone say “JESUS” and you will see those demons inside of them starts acting up. Just a whisper of His name make unsave people start rolling their eyes and acting up. God got Deborah’s back.

  5. Hanlie said:

    I feel exactly like you about this issue. I have a high school friend who is gay. He has not just rejected religion, but mocks and blasphemes God. And often I have asked myself, if he expects people to respect his decisions why is he not respecting others decision to follow God. The only conclusion I have come to is that the Devil is using those people with such behavior. And at the end of the day it is a problem they have and it is not our problem. I think the only thing we can do is pray for them. I know it’s easier said than done, but I think that is what God would want us to do.

  6. That’s right girl. Do as God leads. No need for us to fear man. God is who we ned to please. that prayer could have saved someone’s life.

    • Thanks for your encouragement! We gotta stand for something right?

    • Thank you for reading it. I enjoy your poems and wordplay as well!! I will definitely be checking it out in the future.

      • You’re more than Welcome…. I will be checking more or your writings too…. Thank you for the support.

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